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10 Commandments for Parents of Wrestlers

Posted by Rudy Martinez Jr on Jul 29 2013 at 05:00PM PDT

1. You should be sure that your child knows that – win or lose, scared or heroic – you love him/her, appreciate his/her efforts and that you are not disappointed in him/her.  

2. You should try your best to be completely honest about your child’s athletic capability, his/her competitive attitude, his/her sportsmanship – and his/her actual skill level.  

3. You should be helpful – but don’t coach him/her on the way to practice and competition – or on the way back home.

4. You should teach your child to enjoy competition for competition’s sake, remembering that there are lessons to be learned in winning as well as in losing.

5. You should not try to relive your athletic life through your child or try to create an athletic career to replace the one that you never had.

6. You should not compete with the coach – remember, in many cases, the coach becomes a hero to the athletes, a person who can do no wrong.

7. You should not compare the skill, courage or attitudes of your child with that of other members of the squad or team – at least not in his/her hearing.

8. You should get to know the coach so that you can be sure that his/her philosophy, attitudes, ethics and knowledge are such that you are happy to expose your child to him/her.

9. You should always remember that children tend to exaggerate, both when praised and when criticized. Temper your reactions when they bring home tales of woe or tales of heroics.

10. You should make a point of understanding courage and the fact that it is relative. Some of us climb mountains but fear flight – some of us will want to fight but turn to jelly if a spider crawls nearby. A child must learn: courage is not absence of fear, but rather doing something in spite of fear.

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